I read this story once and I thought that I should get it here so you could all guys read it too.
Once upon a time, there was a Chinese farmer who lost a horse, It ran away.
So next day all neighbors came around that evening and said: "That's too bad"
The Chinese farmer said: "Maybe"
The next day, the horse came back and brought 7 horses with it.
So all neighbors gathered again and said: "Wow that's great! Isn't it?"
and the Chinese farmer said: "Maybe"
The next day, his son was attempting to ride one of these horses and fell while he doing so and broke his leg.
So all the neighbors came around in the evening and said: "Well that's too bad! Isn't it?
and the Chinese farmer as always said: "Maybe"
The next day, the conscription officers came around looking for the people that will join the army, and they rejected his son because he had a broken leg.
So all the neighbors came around in the evening and said:"Isn't that wonderful?"
The Chinese farmer said:"Maybe"
The whole process of nature is an integrated process of immense complexity, and it's really impossible to tell whether anything that happens in it is either good or bad, Because you never know what will be the consequences of the misfortunes, or what will be the consequences of the good fortune.
All that you could afford for yourself to be happy, is gratitude, to be grateful about the bad before the good because maybe tomorrow you'll find that the good had a bad influence, and the bad had the best impact.
Wish you a great life and I hope that this added something to you.