What are some arbitrary rules that you made up for yourself that has held you back in life?
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The one thing that held me back for years without me even realizing, that I was trying to make a corrupted deal with life, that:
1- I'll better manage my finance when I have more money.
2- I'll stop smoking when I get back to sports.
3- I'll quit drugs when my life has more entertaining and valuable activities.
THIS WAS TOTALLY WRONG FOR SO MANY REASONS, BECAUSE:
1- You won't have more money unless you better manage your personal finance; even if your income multiplied, you'd lose your money to bad spending habits.
2- If you didn't stop smoking, you wouldn't be motivated to get back to a healthy lifestyle, and it probably won't work out for you; plus that giving up smoking will be more beneficial to your health than running and smoking.
3- If you didn't quit drugs, you wouldn't ever have these entertaining and valuable activities because drugs will absorb all your time, effort, and money.
A general principle is never to wait for anything to happen without your contribution, nor expect rewards from life without putting inadequate effort, time, and money.